About Me

I’m Cara Laban, and I’m not your typical life coach. I’m not a life coach at all really, I’m more of a life strategist/dominatrix/advisor. I’m not interested in tip-toeing around your issues or sugarcoating the truth. I’m here to help you get what you want—whether that’s a clear action plan for a decision that’s driving you crazy, or just someone who actually tells you what to do for a change (with your circumstances in mind, of course).

It’s always been my thing. Growing up, my friends would come to me with everything from school troubles to friend dilemmas, and I’d lay out the next steps for them like a little baby boss. As an adult, that evolved into helping people navigate tougher, more complex situations—life, relationships, time-management, business decisions.

My degree in psychology, along with nearly 20 years of self-exploration, therapy, and human behavior analysis, means I’ve got both the education and experience to see through the fluff and get to the root of what’s really keeping you stuck.

I’m not here to waste your time with vague affirmations and ‘positive energy.’ I’m here to tell you what to do next. Because you probably already know what you need, and if not, I’ll help you figure it out fast.

This isn’t about unpacking your childhood trauma (I’m leaving that to your therapist). This is about looking at where you are right now and moving forward—one bold, decisive step at a time.

Let’s make it happen.

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